Looking back...looking ahead

I was reading one of my favorite 'homemaking' books this week and was touched by a yearly tradition the author participates in. Every year after her kids go back to school she writes them each a letter. She writes about her feelings as they head off into another year. She writes about her hopes and prayers for them as they go into another year and she tells them how proud she is to be their mom. She plans to give them the letters sometime in the future when they go to college or have their own school-aged child. It's also her way of helping to let go a little more each year.

She sums it up best here:
"Don't let the first day of school go by without somehow marking it in highlighter. Even if you're not the type to weep on the couch writing sappy letters, snap your child's picture as he leaves the house. Plan a special dinner or a favorite dessert. Serve sparkling juice in goblets.

Because your child is growing up, and before you know it, you'll have run out of first days to celebrate." - Lynn Bowen Walker, Queen of the Castle

I love this idea because it is about intentionally reflecting on the past and anticipating the future.

If you have pre-school aged children you can start this tradition now as fall arrives. Reflect on their growth and change this past year and what you are looking forward to sharing with them this coming year. Tell them why you love their current age and why you love being their mom.

If you are like me and are not yet a mom, I still think it would be valuable to write a letter. Write a letter to the Lord about whatever is on your heart. Pour out your hopes and dreams for the coming year. Reflect on the many things you have to be grateful for. These letters will be priceless in years to come.

As this first week in September comes to a close, start a new tradition that encourages reflecting on the past year and anticipating the coming year. You'll be so glad you did!